Because happy kids = beautiful, natural memories!
As a lifestyle photographer (and a parent myself!), I know firsthand how intimidating it can feel to prep your little ones for a family photo session. Will they smile? Will they cooperate? Will they suddenly decide they hate pants? (Spoiler alert: sometimes, yes.) But here’s the good news—your session doesn't need to be stiff, forced, or stressful. Remember, lifestyle photography is all about embracing real connection, playful moments, and the beautiful chaos of family life.
Here's a few of my tips on how to set your kids—and yourself up for success:
1. Set Expectations—In Kid Language: Talk to your kids ahead of time about what to expect in simple, positive terms: “We’re going to hang out in the park and play while someone takes our pictures!”, “We’ll be doing lots of cuddling, tickling, and maybe even a silly dance.” Framing the session as a fun activity instead of a formal event helps relieve pressure.
2. Choose Comfortable, Kid-Friendly Outfits: While coordinating outfits is great, comfort comes first—especially for little ones. If they’re itchy, cold, or restricted, it’ll show in the photos (and in their mood).
Clients will receive a style guide by me to assist when deciding what outfit combinations I recommend. Let them try on their clothes the day before and move around in them. Bonus tip: avoid clothing with large logos or neon colors, which can distract from your beautiful faces. *For studio sessions, I provide optional clothing pieces up to 3t
3. Feed Them First (and Bring Snacks!): Hungry kids = grumpy kids. Plan your session after a good meal or snack and bring extras just in case. Think dry, non-messy snacks (like crackers or fruit snacks) that won't stain hands or clothes mid-shoot.
4. Bring a Favorite Toy or Comfort Item: Whether it’s a tiny stuffed bunny or a blanket, familiar objects can help kids feel safe and relaxed. Plus, they can add a personal, meaningful touch to your images.
And if we’re lucky, that little lovey might even make a sweet cameo!
5. Let Them Be Themselves: My BIG one: don’t stress if your child doesn’t smile on command. Real expressions—giggles, cuddles, pouts, and even curiosity—are all part of the story. I’ll guide your family through gentle prompts and games to spark natural connection. You don’t need to “perform”—you just need to show up and be present.
7. Trust the Process: Some kids warm up quickly, while others need time to observe. That’s totally okay. I always build buffer time into sessions, especially with young children, so we can move at their pace.
The best photos happen when everyone is relaxed, not rushed.
Final Thoughts: The best family photos don’t come from perfectly behaved kids—they come from real moments of love and connection. So breathe, have fun, and trust that we’ll capture something beautiful, no matter how wiggly or wild the day feels.
Need help planning your next session? I’d love to chat! Reach out through my BOOKING page and let's get started!